In my last blog, I mentioned how to identify your clutter and some reasons why you may avoid letting it go. Now I’d like to go a little deeper into some tips that I have personally used for years to bust through the clutter and keep the vibes of my space fresh and bright!
What do you do with all the stuff you don’t want to acknowledge? Well, you throw it into a closet, drawer or some storage compartment of course! I’m joking, but that’s exactly what many of us do. All of our belongings are a reflection of our thoughts, feeling, and beliefs. And symbolic of parts of us that we dislike, are ashamed of and all the repressed feelings in our subconscious.
I’ve noticed in all the clutter clearing books and courses I’ve seen. They all like to tell you to get rid of clutter and their tips on doing so, but I’ve personally never seen anyone address the reasons you have the clutter in the first place.
Me telling you that you have too much stuff is pointing out the obvious. Wouldn’t you like to know how to more easily let go of the clutter? Instead of just being told how to separate it into boxes and organizing tips. Because the thing is, if you don’t address the reasons why you haven’t been...
So what’s in your pot? What’s in your energy field daily? What kinds of thoughts, feelings, conversations are you involved in on a regular basis?
Whatever those are, get out a sheet of paper and quickly write down as many things as you can. You want to do this quickly so that you don’t overthink it and start diluting the information.
Now, look at the things you’ve written down. That’s what’s in your mix or your pot most often. Do you like what you see? Or are you surprised, disappointed? Or perhaps you already had a good idea of what you’d write down? Either way, it's a great idea to assess your starting point before choosing to redirect what you’re creating daily.
I think pots of gold, rainbows, and leprechauns are cute. But, they all come with an energy that they are untouchable, unattainable and if we look at our dreams and goals in that way, well we are probably never going to achieve...
One of the biggest addictions in this world is talking about problems. We search high and low to find answers to those problems. We read spiritual books, try hypnosis and a whole slew of other things hoping for a change.
Yet so often underneath it all, we are fiercely fighting for our limitations. How many of you have had a friend or family member call you and ask for your help only to reject everything you say? Continue to claim they want help, but all they want is to defend their current life situation that they hate. It can be awkward to speak up and tell someone when they are going full steam ahead on the bitch train. But you have to let them know that you won’t be participating in conversations that consist of focusing on problems, rather than, new possibilities to change. Yes, they may get angry, blame or accuse you of not being there for them. But, you have to choose what you will focus on and...
How many times have you caught yourself ruminating over past mistakes? Beating yourself up over big and little things that didn’t go the way you wanted them to…that feels fantastic, huh?! Firstly, what if there are no mistakes, just choices you made, nothing right or wrong about them. And secondly, you are free to choose something different at any given moment. But, most people decide to stay stuck, rather than, taking their attention off of perceived failures and creating something new.
In this world, we are addicted to fixing things. Judging the crap out of everyone and everything, keeping ourselves in little boxes trying to be all things to all people. Jumping through hoops to be right about something, anything., One thing that keeps us stuck in looking at anyone or anything as needing to be fixed. If we think something needs fixed we are already judging it as broken and something wrong with it. And you can get yourself stuck in a continuous loop of attempting...
What comes to mind when I mention the word Magic"? Perhaps a disappearing card trick? Or maybe a Disney movie type of feeling? What about you? Have you ever thought of yourself as magical? What if I told you that you are walking talking, breathing magic?! And just accepting yourself as magical in all you do!
Quantum Physics tells us that our bodies and everything we see are a hologram that is just flickering and changing at speeds we can’t even comprehend. So how does this help you to create a life you desire and realize you’re magical? Well, when you realize that your thoughts, beliefs, and meanings that you attach to anything your observe changes the molecules in your body and the Universe I’d say that’s pretty darn magical! An example of your magical powers: have you ever had a bothersome experience and shared it with a friend who was able to offer a different way of interpreting the event? And then suddenly it’s like a light bulb when...
How do you feel when things are changing in your life? Do you often feel uncomfortable, worried, out of control? Yes, I realize there are all sorts of changes we experience in our lives that are exciting and desired. But, often change seems to be very unnerving for us to go through. So what if we started to look at all the possibilities during these times of change, rather than, focus on what could go wrong?
There’s an old quote that states, “Sometimes when things are falling apart they may be falling into place.” Now I know that reading things like that can be a bit annoying when you’re in the middle of a big life change and unsure how it will impact you. But, take a moment and think back to other times when you were scared and thought maybe a life situation you were going through was the worst thing ever to happen. Then you realize it turned out better than you had ever imagined.
Sometimes we have to be really uncomfortable to even...
It's that time of year again when people start thinking about the changes they want or need to make in their lives. The infamous "New Year's Resolutions" most often include losing weight, sticking to an exercise plan, quitting smoking, spending less money, making family time a priority, etc. These are all great ideas, but I always wondered why we had to make these choices one day a year and then when we most likely failed at keeping the resolutions we just labeled ourselves failures and then wait until January 1st of the following year to try again. A pretty dumb idea if you ask me...
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