Dynamic Family

The dynamics of each family are different and can certainly be a source of stress, struggle, and stuck-ness for many.

As a child, you want to make your parents/caregivers, grandparents and other family members happy and proud of you. You depend on them for survival and need them to be accepting of or risk being ostracized. 

A very common thing I see and remember doing myself as a child is processing for my parents.

How many times have you watched very young kids throwing a fit and wonder what is going on, why can't they control their child better?!

Well, most often they are processing feelings and emotions that their parents are squishing down and avoiding.

Kids are super aware of energies and emotions, even if they are unable to express them verbally. That pattern of the child taking on their parents' pain and suffering started long ago and can be passed down in families.

I sometimes see this in the DNA and until someone in the family has the awareness and decides they want to change this, it will likely continue.

Many clients tell me how frustrated and stressed they often feel around family.

I hear stories like, I did everything my parents wanted me to, good grades in school, perfect job, according to them, married at the correct age, etc. But why are they still not happy with me?

It is energy and expectation! I see so many energy entanglements and obligations between family members.

It's amazing!

And the promises, expectations, and judgments run deep! If you don't clear these things up, you’ll keep doing "all the right things" yet still feel not good enough and unsatisfied.

You can't live your life based on what others want or think you should do.

The energies are quickly shifted and released in a session and then you are free to know what you'd actually like to create and have in your life, rather than functioning from a default family pattern that doesn't fit your ideal life. 

If you're ready to create a new dynamic with your family check out my FAMILY CLEARING! And I am available to assist you with a personal clearing if you’d like a more in depth session specific to your needs.

Until next time, enjoy allowing more ease and joy into your life :-)