Ahh family, sometimes you love them, and sometimes you pretend you were adopted by a lovely alien race and are waiting for them to come pick you up and take you out of this solar system LOL!

Seriously though, family can bring lots of beautiful moments and lots of confusion.

Even if you have a mostly great relationship with your family, there can still be many challenges and belief systems that are passed down through bloodlines, physically and energetically. 

One of the most common patterns I see is that of guilt.

Where certain family beliefs have been pushed upon others as a way to control their choices.

Much of this I believe is meant out of love, but is very fear based and controlling.

It feels yucky to have those you love telling you that they basically don’t trust you to navigate your own life and that they know better. 

So now let's check in and see what you think about your family.

Be honest, what do you say and think about them?

Do you notice if you have issues wi...

The dynamics of each family are different and can certainly be a source of stress, struggle, and stuck-ness for many.

As a child, you want to make your parents/caregivers, grandparents and other family members happy and proud of you. You depend on them for survival and need them to be accepting of or risk being ostracized. 

A very common thing I see and remember doing myself as a child is processing for my parents.

How many times have you watched very young kids throwing a fit and wonder what is going on, why can't they control their child better?!

Well, most often they are processing feelings and emotions that their parents are squishing down and avoiding.

Kids are super aware of energies and emotions, even if they are unable to express them verbally. That pattern of the child taking on their parents' pain and suffering started long ago and can be passed down in families.

I sometimes see this in the DNA and until someone in the family has the awareness and decides they want...

This week I want to talk about something that has been on my mind for a very long time, years. The idea of asking for help and all the “stuff” that brings up for people.

I’ve noticed many experiencing resistance, judgment, and guilt around asking for help.

Most of my life I felt tons of judgment towards myself for asking for any help. So I understand why people avoid asking others for help and how it could be viewed as a bad or disempowering thing.

But what if it's not a bad thing?

If you’re going through something and you require more info, ideas, a different perspective on things, just ask. If you were to speak up and ask, maybe things would flow so much easier.

Why stress yourself out spinning in circles trying to resolve something, when you could perhaps ask and have the situation shift, sometimes in an instant!

I find it funny that most of you wouldn’t hesitate to take your car to a mechanic, pay a restaurant to help you with cooking meals, or hire daycare to help with w...