Create Your Own Luck
One of the biggest addictions in this world is talking about problems.
We search high and low to find answers to those problems. We read spiritual books, try hypnosis, talk to a therapist and a whole slew of other things hoping for a change.
Yet so often underneath it all, we are fiercely fighting for our limitations.
How many of you have had a friend or family member call you and ask for your help only to reject everything you say? Continue to claim they want help, but all they want is to defend their current life situation that they supposedly hate.
It can be awkward to speak up and tell someone when they are going full steam ahead on the bitch train. But you have to let them know that you won’t be participating in conversations that consist of focusing on problems, rather than new possibilities to change.
Yes, they may get angry, blame or accuse you of not being there for them. But, you have to choose what you will focus on and what you want to create in your world....
Your Pot of Gold
What’s in your energy field daily?
What kinds of thoughts, feelings, conversations are you entertaining on a regular basis?
Whatever those are, get out a sheet of paper and quickly write down as many things as you can. You want to do this quickly so that you don’t overthink it and start diluting the information.
Now, look at the things you’ve written down.
That’s what’s in your mix, or consciousness most often. Do you like what you see?
Are you surprised, disappointed, excited?
Or perhaps you already had a good idea of what you’d write down?
Either way, it's a great idea to acknowledge your starting point before choosing to create more deliberately. No, judgements, just really taking a good neutral look at what you’ve been doing up until now.
You may have noticed there was a mix of wanted and unwanted things on your list.
Would you like to have more of the things you like?
What about even better than you could imagine to show up...
I see Clutter
What do you do with all the stuff you don’t want to acknowledge?
Well, you throw it into a closet, drawer or some storage compartment of course!
I’m joking, but that’s exactly what many of us do. All of our belongings are a reflection of our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. And symbolic of parts of us that we dislike, are ashamed of and all the repressed feelings in our subconscious.
I’ve noticed in all the clutter clearing books and courses I’ve seen. They all like to tell you to get rid of clutter and their tips on doing so, but I’ve personally never seen anyone address the reasons you have the clutter in the first place.
Me telling you that you have too much stuff is pointing out the obvious.
Wouldn’t you like to know how to more easily let go of the clutter? Instead of just being told how to separate it into boxes and organizing tips.
Because the thing is, if you don’t address the reasons why you haven’t been willing to...
I Had No Idea!
Are you only capable of doing what others expect from you and nothing more? Right now I’m at a place in my life where I’m allowing myself to express different aspects of who I am.
Most people that know me, or who have spoken to me for a moment would likely say I’m already very expressive.
Yes, I am; however, there’s much more to me than meets the eye!
I’ll be the first one to say that although I’m very bold, it can be uncomfortable to step out and show people other sides of myself.
Others tend to know us in a certain way and whether they mean to or not, put us into a little box.
So when we show them other skills, talents, or interests, it can rattle and trigger people a bit.
Nothing wrong with that, just good to know that may happen.
It doesn't matter what you choose to do; people will have an opinion (I encourage you to assume they are excited for you) when you finally decide to share your dreams with the world.
Please don’t let...
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