The Worthiness Trap

Apr 04, 2023
Do you feel worthy to have the life you truly desire?

Notice whatever thoughts, feelings or beliefs that question may have brought up for you.

Take a nice deep breath and let all of that gently release.

You can always recreate what you just let go of if you really want to. But for now, I’d like you to open up to look at the idea of worthiness from a different perspective.

Most of us have picked up this idea that we need to be worthy of good things, things we want or we can never actually have them.

One of the main beliefs connected to this is the idea that something is inherently wrong with us. We are somehow flawed, bad or not quite good enough in someone’s opinion.

Many are walking around programmed to think that they have to keep doing more and more to be worthy.

Or to stop doing this or that so that they fit in and are acceptable. That somehow we have to earn this elusive stamp of worth and value.

We aren’t quite sure how to achieve it but we will often...

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Clear Clutter The Easy Way

Jan 24, 2023

 

In my last blog, I mentioned how to identify your clutter and some reasons why you may avoid letting it go.

Now I’d like to go a little deeper into some tips that I have personally used for years to bust through the clutter and keep the vibes of my space fresh and bright!

Again I’m not suggesting you get rid of all your belongings or that you have to clutter clear at all. I’m just offering information.

I’ve seen the positive impact that clearing clutter has had on my life and the lives of my clients. So I hope that you will at least give these tips a try for yourself.

1. Notice where you have multiples

If you have 6 Large cooking spoons, 3 or 4 sets of china and drinking glasses. Do you really need all of that? Especially if you are living in a space that really doesn’t have room for all of that. It doesn’t have to be cookware. It could be books, clothes, anything. Notice if it's excessive and if you really (need) it. 

(Insight) This...

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I see Clutter

Jan 17, 2023

What do you do with all the stuff you don’t want to acknowledge?

Well, you throw it into a closet, drawer or some storage compartment of course!

I’m joking, but that’s exactly what many of us do. All of our belongings are a reflection of our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. And symbolic of parts of us that we dislike, are ashamed of and all the repressed feelings in our subconscious.

I’ve noticed in all the clutter clearing books and courses I’ve seen. They all like to tell you to get rid of clutter and their tips on doing so, but I’ve personally never seen anyone address the reasons you have the clutter in the first place.

Me telling you that you have too much stuff is pointing out the obvious.

Wouldn’t you like to know how to more easily let go of the clutter? Instead of just being told how to separate it into boxes and organizing tips.

Because the thing is, if you don’t address the reasons why you haven’t been willing to...

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