When creating do you wonder if other people will like it?
Sure you do!
Of course you want people to like your post, video, or even a nice meal you’ve made.
But, have you noticed how stressful that can be to always try to do everything to please others?
What if you started creating things from the vantage point of what lights you up?!
What exactly do I mean by that?
Create things that are interesting and inspiring to you.
When you do it that way you will find it much easier to create and others will be magnetized to your excitement.Â
Too many people are focused and pushing the method of trying to figure out what everyone else wants.
But there’s no way really to know what others want all the time.
And where are you in the equation?
Do you really want to sit around making content, or anything that isn’t firstly pleasing to you?
I certainly don’t!Â
Also, others can sense when you aren’t really into something and it is generally a repellent.
I’m not saying you need ...
Do you realize that you are creating everything in your reality?
Did you answer yes?
But, do ya really know it or do you only believe that until something happens that feels outside your control?
Like someone is being mean to you, maybe you think they are just a jerk and that’s their problem.
Guess what, you created that too!
Now before you object and start thinking that sounds like a lot of responsibility to take on, you’ve got to drop all your judgments.
Be gentle with yourself and remember that we aren’t taught that we create reality.
Whatever meaning you assign to each and everything in your life is what makes it true for you.
If you think someone is a jerk and you continue to hold that point of view; they must show up in YOUR WORLD as a jerk.
They can be super nice and lovely in others worlds but they must show up in your reality the way you dominantly assume.Â
I could write a few books on the topic and all the nuances, but for now I want you to have some fun wit...
We’ve all had moments of feeling like we hate ourselves, fear that others hate us or we hate things we have done.
It is a part of life to experience a myriad of emotions, feelings, and thoughts.
We get to reflect upon our actions and make adjustments to those thoughts, feelings, and beliefs when we want to create a different experience in our reality.
That’s all great if used to positively adjust our points of view.
But what often happens is we find we are in a war with ourselves.
We call this self-sabotage and it's one of the biggest things distracting us from consciously choosing to create our lives.
Sabotage comes in many forms, but no matter the form it takes it is meant to keep you stuck and spinning.
Let’s take shame for instance.
We have all felt shame before.
But what about when it becomes irrational shame?
Have you ever felt like you needed to keep a secret from everyone because if they knew your secret they would certainly chastise you and never ...
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