The Person to Please

Are you a good friend?

How about being a good spouse, parent, employee, etc.

Are you Good?

Did you feel some judgment and confusion that came up with that?

What if the only person you must please is YOU!?

Although it can be uncomfortable to acknowledge. All relationships really are about you.

And being more aware of how you treat yourself and expect to be treated by others.

So let’s talk a bit about how our relationships and roles change as we move into an often unknown territory of choosing what’s right for us.

As you commit to making changes in certain areas of your life, you will see that not everyone will be happy or supportive.

Because of this, many will choose to stay where they are, never venturing past the point where others start to get pissed off at them. Sometimes the people you thought you could depend on the most will disappear, say discouraging words, and disappoint you.

It might feel like things are breaking down and that you perhaps had lost your freaking mind to ever choose to move forward.

Keep going anyways!!

You don’t need anyone’s permission to live your life, and it’s common, but not necessary, for some upheaval to be thrown in the mix with change. Keep going!

Yes, you may have some people peel/drop out of your life. You might see a side of others you never knew, and don’t like very much. You might hear unsolicited advice about how to do all kinds of things and how that person just knows what’s best for you.

If it feels like crap, it probably is.

You must listen and trust yourself.

You know what to do.

You’re not inspired to do certain things for no reason, fearlessly follow that inspiration. Yes, some people will be mad and possibly hate you, but if you don’t do what’s in your heart, you will probably end up hating yourself.

Realizing all of the drama, confusion and trying to make everyone approve of you is just a distraction to keep you from stepping into the life you truly desire.

Start inviting in more people who are genuinely supportive, happy and believe in you. 

Not much makes me happier than hearing about someone achieving a goal and having great blessings in their lives.

It makes me beam with joy!

No matter what you’re going through right now, know that things are getting easier. Remember to  be kind to yourself and acknowledge how amazing you are!!