Happy February!! The month of all things Love and romance! Everyone loves the feeling of being in love, the fresh energy, and excitement, the hope, and possibilities that perhaps this is finally the person you’ve been looking for your entire life. But, have you ever wondered if you’re able to Love yourself the way you expected a person to Love you, or how you think your love them?
We often focus on something being wrong with us and that if we can just find that right person to complete us and Love us, then we won’t be broken or wrong anymore. Not to say that you need to love yourself 100% perfectly all of the time, but there is a certain level of self-love and appreciation required for a healthy, happy, balanced relationship to exist. How many of you have found yourselves in situations with people wondering how you allowed that to happen and if you only had more confidence and self-worth there’s no way you’d let someone treat you that way? I know I have, more times than I care to count. But, I realized that I had to put myself first and love myself to attract different people and or various aspects of the same people to appear to me.
What are some things that you can do today that will contribute to you loving yourself more? Maybe you could go for a nice peaceful walk. Start wearing clothes that look great on you and make you feel confident and comfortable. I love doing things to take care of my physical body, which always helps me feel more relaxed and helps me to be easier on myself. Another great thing you can do is, write a list or just think about some of your great qualities. If you really can’t think of anything nice about yourself, think back at compliments others have given you. Often others can see things about us that are blind spots for us. Doesn’t matter how big or small the things are, just start easing into focusing on beautiful qualities about yourself on a regular basis. You will notice [immediately], your mood lightens, and you feel more optimistic so...stick with it!
I hope you all realized how much I love and appreciate you! I’m very thankful that you take the time to read my blogs and watch my videos each week. If I can help you feel even a little happier and have a little dash of fun in your day, I’m thrilled!! Remember you don’t help anyone by playing small or being mean to yourself, Focus on all your amazing qualities and they will be amplified. Have a lovely week :-)