Ahh family, sometimes you love them, and sometimes you pretend you were adopted by a lovely alien race and are waiting for them to come pick you up and take you out of this solar system LOL!

Seriously though, family can bring lots of beautiful moments and lots of confusion.

Even if you have a mostly great relationship with your family, there can still be many challenges and belief systems that are passed down through bloodlines, physically and energetically. 

One of the most common patterns I see is that of guilt.

Where certain family beliefs have been pushed upon others as a way to control their choices.

Much of this I believe is meant out of love, but is very fear based and controlling.

It feels yucky to have those you love telling you that they basically don’t trust you to navigate your own life and that they know better. 

So now let's check in and see what you think about your family.

Be honest, what do you say and think about them?

Do you notice if you have issues wi...

Are you experiencing fear of change?

Avoiding change for fear of betraying family and sometimes friends is one of the most common patterns I’ve seen over the years.

Yes, you consciously want to change and continue to do many things to create change.

But, there’s an unconscious feeling of guilt that will thwart your efforts and choices, until it is resolved.

As children we needed approval in order to survive.

But, you are still carrying old beliefs and fears that were taught to you, and they are controlling your life in big and small ways.

The good news is, a belief can be changed.

You must first be willing to admit you have certain fears and beliefs.

Then you can question them and finally set yourself free from them…if you choose.

Thankfully, these fears leave lots of clues that are pretty easy to spot.

What area or areas of your life do you seem to continuously experience struggle and disappointment?

I’ll share a few common areas and belief patterns.

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