Do you ever wonder why life seems like a series of struggles, disappointments, and losses?

Seriously though, why do we seem to go through so many trials and tribulations?

I’ve asked myself similar questions throughout my life and have seen some common reasons.

We believe life is about suffering

Vows of punishment & suffering

Family patterns of limitations, loss, disappointments, fears

Now do I think that if you’re suffering it means you sat down and did some ritual to declare you shall suffer for eternity?

Not necessarily but I have seen stranger things come up in someone's energy.

Often we pick up on the patterns and limitations of those around us as children and we naturally match those habits as a form of safety and fitting in.

Some of this is passed down energetically and some is seen and heard directly. 

If we notice our friends and family are continuously at a certain level of happiness, success etc.

If we want to fit in, be loved and feel safe, we will unconscio...