Recently I was having a conversation with someone who was worried that an important package was lost or wouldn't get to its destination on time.

They were visibly stressed and I could tell that they had decided that it was out of their control.

The post office may or may not figure it out, but it was left up to chance at this point.

I suggested that this person imagine that instead of them being told that their package was delayed, see or hear that the package has already quickly and easily arrived at its destination.

They looked back at me perplexed as they were still trying to figure out how.

I reminded them that how it will happen is NOT their job and just decide that it is done!

It is already figured out and embody the feeling of relief that the mail is already delivered.

Within 45 min they emailed me to say how blown away they were that the post office had in fact reached out shortly after our call to say the mail was found and would be delivered on time! 

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Are you ready to take back your power to choose?

We all make countless choices every day.

What to wear, what to eat and drink, and even where we will focus our thoughts and attention.

Usually, we think it's easy to choose what foods to eat or the types of clothing we will wear, but not the thoughts we think.

That somehow we are victims of our thoughts and that they just bounce around from one thing to another without our input.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

Many of us are taught that life just happens to us.

That we are either lucky or not so lucky. We are either born into the right family in a good neighborhood or not. And If you didn’t happen to get blessed with the right family, great looks etc, you can still maybe change your life a little bit if you work really really hard.

But all of those are just beliefs and beliefs can be changed.

You just have to choose something different. How many of you have had thoughts like, Oh that’s just how it is i...