Uncomfortable Yet?
For most people comfort is the ultimate goal in life.
We usually stick to people and situations that are safe and predictable. And if we do happen to do something out of our comfort zones it is often because we are forced to.
Most of us don’t volunteer to give public speeches, really anything that puts us in the spotlight, and how often have you finished a workout thinking that it was so uncomfortable and you never wanted to work out again?! LOL!
Throughout most of my life, I was on a quest to find safety and comfort.
I was so serious about being comfortable at all times, because I was so UNcomfortable. I began to isolate myself to the extreme!
To say I became a little bit of a control freak is an understatement. At the time I didn’t realize that I was super aware of others thoughts, feelings, and energies.
I just knew that I felt overloaded regularly and believed if I could just control everything; that would mean finding that ultimate comfort I was seeking.
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Keep Going
As we begin creating our lives more by choice, rather than by default, we may notice certain reactions from others that are uncomfortable to us.
Not everyone is going to be happy or approve of what we choose all the time, or perhaps any of the time.
We have to keep choosing for ourselves anyway.
Firstly it doesn’t matter what you do or say; you will NEVER please everyone.
So spare yourself the agony and running in endless circles of even attempting it.
Sometimes people that you thought were supportive and happy for you will suddenly make an offhanded comment that leaves you wondering what the heck happened?!
You may notice others tense up when you talk about goals or when you share any fun or exciting things in your life. It is their stuff being triggered and by you choosing to grow and expand it is inviting them to do the same.
Some people can find that invitation downright terrifying; Keep going anyway!
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