I’ll Be Happy When...

Do you ever think you’ll feel happy when you get what you want?

Like you’re waiting for someone or something to make you feel better?

Indulging in stories about your true love swooping in and then you’ll finally be happy.

Or, if this business deal goes through then you can finally relax and life will be smooth sailing.

That sounds amazing!

But, it ain’t gonna happen like that.

I DO mean to burst your bubble here.

Take an honest look at your past and notice that every time you got what you wanted; you still wanted more.

Of course, you were excited about the relationship, vacation, or new car but eventually the excitement faded.

You are here to expand and create.

So it is very natural that you will always desire more and seek new experiences.

That’s all great, but if you make your happiness contingent on something outside of yourself you will likely feel pretty miserable as you hope and wait for “ The Thing” to arrive.

If you catch yourself thinking you’ll feel better when this person loves you, LOVE YOURSELF! If you are tired and need a vacation, but can’t take one; Allow yourself to just relax more each day to get that feeling you’re seeking.

Whenever you make something a big deal it sets you up for disappointment.

You’ve got tunnel vision and have decided I cannot and will not feel good or satisfied until I have my desire. And that actually creates the lack in your reality.

Maybe you feel unworthy of being happy. Or, were taught that outside validation is an indication of success and value.

Do some pondering and ask yourself why you have yourself in this holding pattern, waiting for one day when everything will be better.

Find ways to feel good NOW!

And if you feel resistant to that, ask yourself why?

Do you think if you feel good now that you’ll somehow be penalized and your desire will be taken away?

Perhaps you feel guilty for having what you want, if so write a list of any stories you have around that. 

You can decide that you are just done waiting on this thing and feel good now!

It really only requires you to choose it.

So what person or thing have you given your power to?

Take it back and be the version of you who is already experiencing all the feelings associated with your fulfilled desires now! Enjoy!

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