Give Yourself More Credit!

For years I just sorta floated around going with the flow.

Not valuing my time and doing what others wanted. I suffered with extreme anxiety for many years so It was difficult for me to imagine a future where I wasn’t struggling to feel safe and calm.

Let alone, dreaming up goals, planning, and implementing them. I was just trying to get through each day without having a panic attack.

I felt chronically overwhelmed and overstimulated by the slightest things. Since I was unable to work for many years.

I couldn’t see where I was adding immense value to others' worlds just by being alive.

My mind had been programmed to compare myself to others' long lists of successes and I always felt frozen and like I was never enough and running out of time.

I wasn’t giving myself credit because I was trying to fit into a mold that simply wasn’t me or even meant to be my path.

Some people do quite well following others' guidelines, ideas and structures, but I am a free thinking super creative Aquarius and being a follower never ever worked for me.

I definitely have enjoyed others' perspectives and gained valuable insights from them. However; any time I tried to follow another's way of being too much it failed miserably.

One of the most important signs of success for me is that I can go to sleep each night knowing that I was fair, kind, and treated others with respect.

To know I did my very best with the day. Some of those days I may not be as productive, happy or kind, but that is alright, because it was my best at the time.

I do enjoy making lists that I can cross off what I accomplished, but I make it a point to notice things that seem small or unimportant.

Getting work done, finishing errands are all great.

But what about things you take for granted?

Did you make someone laugh, give them a hug, give great advice?

Help a stranger who was lost?

Inspire others to go for their dreams?

The list is endless!

I still don’t give myself enough credit, and I am continuing to improve on that.

I have my own struggles for sure, yet being able to write these blogs and know that I might be helping you brings me a great sense of peace and warmth in my heart.

Allowing things that have hurt and challenged me to be transformed into something positive to share with you is one of my favorite things.

What new definitions of success can you come up with in your own life?

It’s your world, your rules, have fun with it!

Want to feel more confident and powerful in your life and relationships?

Check out the audios Knowing your are Worthy and Stop Playing Small.