Energetically Divorcing Things

Have you ever felt energetically entangled with someone?

That even though you know the dynamic with them isn’t great you feel enmeshed for some reason beyond logic.

This can happen because of family patterns you grew up with. But I have personally found that there’s often much more to it than that.

Years ago I experienced this uncomfortable pattern within a friendship.

Yes, I am kind and always look for the best in others, but this relationship was repeatedly draining and I found myself not being able to break free or make necessary changes to the dynamic.

It was mind boggling since I know all about energy entanglements and had been clearing them for years.

I did so much self reflecting, cleared numerous angles of the relationship.

Yet, I still felt stuck, unclear, and exhausted. 

There was a strange energy of guilt and duty, like I owed this person for something.

Where it would normally be easy to say no and simply walk away, I just couldn’t.

Finally after months of racking my brain to get out of the loop.

I had an awareness breakthrough after chatting with another friend.

See I had gotten stuck in the idea that I needed to release something that was directly related to this person.

But, suddenly it hit me that the entry point for this pattern was with someone else in their life.

We can become entangled with individual people. But, we can and do get entangled with their families too. 

Rather than, going into deep detail about why this happens. I’ll say that it can be extremely life draining to overgive.

And releasing promises, oaths, and vows with everyone is a necessary act of ongoing self care.

And it is always a good idea to be curious and open about what is actually contributing to something unwanted in your life. 

If you decide it must be one thing, but it is actually stemming from something else.

You can’t see the truth and make the changes because you're stuck looking in the wrong direction.

If you find that suddenly things seem to be going wrong in your life.

That you feel chronically stressed, tired, confused.

Take a moment to see what is different. Is there a new person in your life, are you over giving to them?

Do things seem to suddenly be going better for them, while worse for you??

Don’t ignore this awareness.

It’s not about blaming the other person.

It is about acknowledging that there’s an energy between you that is creating discord in your life and it is up to YOU to change it!

One of my favorite ways to get clarity and release confused stuck energy is with my Who or what’s in your field audio.

Whether you’re picking up energy, thoughts and feelings from strangers, family or environments.

This audio is the quickest way I’ve used to get clear and feel better fast!

Use this clearing any time you feel overwhelmed and unsure.

To align with your power and trust yourself to make the right choices for you and not be affected by others pulling on you. 

If you have any questions about the audios, sessions, or want me to address a specific topic.

Please reach out. I’d love to hear from you!