Why you feel unfulfilled

There’s this pervasive lie that your life should be on a strict timetable. 

That you should have specific experiences regarding success, love, money, and education.

Or even starting a family according to someone else’s desires and rules.

If you don’t do these things it supposedly means you’ve failed and you’ll be judged and pitied by others. Because you are behind in life and somehow flawed.

None of that feels good and that’s because it isn’t true! 

Everyone is programmed and told what to think, feel, and do through words and energy in childhood. Also through cellular memory from our ancestors. 

Our loved ones are mostly teaching us what they know and many restrictive beliefs are passed down unknowingly under the guise that they will be best for us to believe in the long run.

So you do all the things you were taught would bring all the success, money, love, and contentment.

But, why do you feel so unfulfilled? 

The most common things I see are those who did all the things the correct way at the correct time.

They got all the things that were supposed to make them happy and feel satisfied, but they don’t.

Then I see people who tried to do it all perfectly but nothing ever worked out for them.

Both of these approaches are flawed because you are looking outside yourself for value. 

Person #1- Got all the things and still not happy.

Person #2- Still trying to get all the things and not happy.

Hmmm have you ever honestly asked yourself if you even want these things?

It can feel scary and confronting to ask if you’ve put in many years to achieve certain goals.

To ponder if you possibly wanted something else is actually very freeing and a huge step to having the life you really want.

Nobody else needs to know how you feel.

But, be honest with yourself and clear about your own feelings so you can make the most ideal life choices.

KEY POINT: Perhaps you aren’t achieving something because you don’t want it! 

Maybe it was your parents dream, or everyone else seemed successful doing this particular thing.

Ok, but that doesn’t mean it's your true desire and that’s alright.

Stop comparing yourself to others.

Stop thinking you’re behind and assuming everyone else is happier than you.

Everyone wants different things. 

You will ALWAYS want more!

You are an infinite creative being, you can’t stop desiring and creating.

What if you let yourself get clear on what is true for you?

Have fun dreaming and getting excited about what’s to come!

Let go of the need for approval from others and give it to yourself.

You might be the first person in your family to finally break a long pattern of just doing what everyone else is doing.

Maybe your courage to be true to yourself will be an inspiration to others!

You are in exactly the perfect place to decide where you would like to be next. Have fun!!